I often talk about principles of
success.
But success is so much
more than money; it's peace of
mind, it's love... it's family.
Happiness comes not from what's
in our wallets,
but rather, what's in our lives
and our hearts.
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It Starts With Family and
Relationships.
If you have all the money in the
world, but a dysfunctional,
unhappy family, you are not
successful.
Now, don't get me wrong,
money is important.
Without a baseline income
for day to day expenses, life is
tough.
Money issues strain
relationships; it hurts to our
core when we can't provide our
children the same things their
peers get i.e. the newest LeBron
James basketball shoes... If we
can just barely pay our bills,
can't go out as often as we'd
like, that's not an ideal
situation.
There is no question that money
is an important component of the
"happiness equation".
But in this society,
money has come to be considered
the pinnacle of success; the
absolute objective for many.
But how many lives, how
many families have been
destroyed by the relentless
pursuit of wealth? True
happiness comes from the
relationships in our lives, not
the money in our pockets.
The wealthy, commit
suicide all the time.
Happiness is all about
balance, but that balance has to
start with your family and the
relationships in our lives.
Remember, it's never too late to
cure a sick bank account... But
that can't always be said of
curing a dying relationship.
What is the best way to cure a
sick relationship?
Nurture it; Protect it;
EVEN BETTER?
Don't let it get sick in the
first place!
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Is Your Relationship Currently
Unhealthy? Try The Following
Prescription.
From this day forward make sure
that your main focus is not on
you... but rather on your family
and friends.
Show them that they are a
top priority.
Don't
just feel it... Make Them Feel It!
Show them by your
actions how much they are
appreciated.
As to your family?
Your spouse?
Your children? Make them
the foundation of the rest of
your life.
NEVER FORGET THIS...
No one cares how much you know...
unless they know how much you
care!
I found a long time ago that one
of the surest ways to peace,
happiness and even
achievement is to focus on
the needs of others and to
always show appreciation to
those around me... especially
my family.
What you put out really
does come back to you; and in
countless ways...
Nothing is better than
the feelings you get upon seeing
the smiles on their faces and
the love in their heart.
If you really put
family first... you'll never be
without one.
Remember, Nurture and
Protect!
Whether it's your wife, husband,
friend or acquaintance; when
they deserve praise, give it.
When they need comfort or
compassion, give it.
When they deserve an
apology, give it.
When they've hurt you?
Don't ignore it... but be
understanding and handle it
appropriately and proportionally.
Don't let the
OUTRAGE of the
moment destroy the
future of your relationship.
The fact is no relationship is
perfect.
There are a thousand
things that can happen or be
perceived as happening that
create a passion and rage that
propels us into a heated
destructive fight.
It happens to everyone...
and it has happened to me.
How to Minimize The Damage?
What to do when they that
happens?
If possible, slow
down; Think about it... Even
consider ignoring it.
Perception is not always
reality.
On more occasions than I'd like
to admit I found myself enraged
over something that upon further
thought and a bit of
introspective questioning,
I realized I had totally misinterpreted the
situation.
Had I acted upon my
original rage I could have done
irreparable damage to my family.
It was only by slowing
down that it this damage was
prevented.
Learn to choose your
battles.
Before responding, remember;
Perception is not always
reality.
Ask yourself and in this order:
-
Did what I
think
happened, actually
happen?
-
Did what was said really
mean
what I thought that they
meant?
-
If so, ask yourself;
is the
fight really worth it?
-
What will this fight accomplish?
Destroy my spouse and
relationship? Is it worth it?
-
If there is no question but that
it is of such a nature that it
must be dealt with,
is this the right time?
Isn't It Better To Get It Right
Tomorrow... Than Wrong Today?
If
and when you address it, remain
as calm and nice as
possible...
And ONLY as hard as necessary.
Consider, can you temporarily
tamp down your anger for a day,
or even an hour?
If so, it gives you time
to cool down and think about it
with a lessened sense of rage
and passion.
In retrospect it might
not be as bad as it originally
seemed.
Worst case scenario, if
it turns out it was EXACTLY as
you thought it to be, it gave
you time to consider the best
way to discuss it and even solve
it, rather than engaging in the
all-out war that might otherwise
occur.
Remember, we all know that
avoiding disagreements and
problems is impossible.
However, if you learn to
"choose your battles" and
"choose their timing" the
destructive impact of even the
most egregious situation can be
enormously minimized.
And What About the Children?
If you have children, choosing
your battles becomes magnitudes
more important.
One of the best things
you can do for you children it
to learn to choose your battles
and their timing.
Don't subject your
children to your problems.
Of all the things that I can
look at in my life that I might
be tempted to "brag" about, the
one that stands out, of which, I
am most proud?... I'm a good dad.
That's the source of my
greatest pride.
I don't just love my
children...
I always take into
account how my words and actions
will impact them.
Let's be honest, loving them is
the easy part...
Protecting them and
making them feel safe and secure
is the hardest part and that
comes from giving them a loving
peaceful home life.
The Gift Your Children Most Want
The most wonderful, enduring
gift that you can possibly give
to your children?
The one gift they will
NEVER forget?
Will always appreciate,
of which they will never tire,
will never bore them even if
they see it every day of their
lives?
Husbands, love your wives...
Wives, love your husbands...
Don't just love them... show it
every day.
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